Are swinger cruises clothing optional?
Most swinger cruises are not fully clothing optional. On Virgin Voyages, which Spicy Vacations specializes in, the ship is not clothing optional. However, there is one designated deck where topless sunbathing is allowed. Participation is completely optional and respectful.
Do you have to swing on a swinger cruise?
No. You never have to swing on a swinger cruise. Many couples attend lifestyle cruises purely to socialize, make friends, and enjoy an adults only vacation. There is no pressure to participate in any sexual activity.
Are swinger cruises safe for beginners?
Yes. Swinger cruises are often considered one of the safest environments for beginners because consent rules are strict, expectations are clearly communicated, and hosts help guide new couples through the experience.
What is the average age on a swinger cruise?
The average age on a swinger cruise typically ranges from mid-30s to mid-60s, with most couples falling between their 40s and 50s. Lifestyle cruises tend to attract a wide range of ages, body types, and experience levels.
What actually happens on a swinger cruise?
During the day, swinger cruises feel like a normal adults only vacation with pool time, excursions, dining, and relaxation. In the evenings, there are social events, themed parties, and meetups. Any sexual activity happens privately and consensually, not in public spaces.
Are swinger cruises full ship charters?
Some swinger cruises are full ship charters, but many are group cruises. Spicy Vacations hosts group lifestyle cruises, meaning lifestyle couples sail together on an adults only cruise ship alongside non-lifestyle guests, with private group events scheduled throughout the trip.
Can single people go on swinger cruises?
Policies vary by trip and host. Some lifestyle cruises allow single women, while others are couples only. Spicy Vacations primarily focuses on couples-only lifestyle travel, which helps maintain balance and comfort for guests.
Is there public sex on swinger cruises?
No. Public sex is not allowed on swinger cruises. All play is consensual and occurs in private spaces. Lifestyle cruises emphasize respect, discretion, and clear boundaries.
How do you meet people on a swinger cruise?
Most couples meet others during hosted meet and greets, group dinners, themed parties, and casual daytime hangouts. Conversation and connection always come first. There’s no expectation beyond being friendly and respectful.
What should beginners bring on a swinger cruise?
Beginners should bring comfortable daytime clothes, themed outfits if desired, and an open mind. You do not need lingerie or costumes unless you want them. The most important things to bring are communication with your partner and clear boundaries.
Is a swinger cruise only about sex?
No. For most couples, a swinger cruise is about connection, travel, freedom, and community. Sex may be part of the experience for some, but it is never the focus or expectation.


