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What started as a love of travel eventually became a mission: helping open-minded couples create unforgettable memories while exploring the world.
We’re Matt and Bianca, the owners and hosts of Spicy Vacations.
Together since 1995, and in the lifestyle since 2011, we’ve discovered firsthand that the best experiences aren’t just about exotic destinations. They’re about the people you meet, the friendships you build, and the adventures you share along the way.
That’s exactly why we created Spicy Vacations.
Anyone can book a cruise or resort stay. What makes Spicy Vacations different is the community.
When you travel with us, you’re never just another reservation number. From pre-trip planning to onboard meet-and-greets, group dinners, excursions, and exclusive activities, we work hard to create an environment where couples can relax, connect, and feel welcome from day one.
Whether you’re longtime lifestyle veterans or simply curious and looking to dip your toes in, you’ll find a judgment-free atmosphere filled with fun, respectful, and friendly people.
Long before Spicy Vacations was born, we were passionate about helping couples navigate the lifestyle.
Since 2012, we’ve created and hosted hundreds of lifestyle how-to videos covering everything from first-time club visits and communication tips to lifestyle etiquette, relationship dynamics, and common questions curious couples have when getting started. Through our videos, podcasts, seminars, and online content, we’ve helped thousands of couples feel more confident, informed, and prepared for their own journey.
That same educational approach carries over into every Spicy Vacations event. We know what it’s like to be new, nervous, and full of questions, and we’re committed to creating a welcoming environment where everyone feels comfortable.
After sailing on numerous cruise lines, Virgin Voyages quickly became our favorite.
Their adults-only ships offer an incredible combination of luxury, amazing dining, beautiful destinations, and a playful atmosphere that perfectly complements the Spicy Vacations experience. No buffets, no kids, and no overcrowded pool decks—just great food, great entertainment, and great company.
That’s why many of our signature group trips take place aboard Virgin Voyages.
When you join a Spicy Vacations trip, you can look forward to:
Hosted meet-and-greet events
Group dinners and social gatherings
Fun activities and themed events
VIP travel assistance before and during your trip
A welcoming community of like-minded couples
Plenty of opportunities to make new friends and lasting memories
Most importantly, you can participate as much or as little as you like. There is never any pressure, expectations, or requirements beyond being respectful and having fun.
We believe travel is better when shared.
Some of our favorite memories haven’t come from the destinations themselves—they’ve come from laughing with friends at dinner, making lifelong friends, and experiencing adventures we never could have imagined.
Spicy Vacations was built to help create those moments for others.
Whether you’re joining us for a Caribbean cruise, a European adventure, a hotel takeover, or one of our exclusive lifestyle events, we can’t wait to welcome you aboard.
We look forward to traveling with you.
Matt & Bianca
Owners & Hosts
Spicy Vacations
